Ever Experienced The Unvarnished Love Of A Woman?

Because if you have, you’ll never settle for just any type. You’ll be willing to pass up on every other type.

Perhaps you’re wondering if I have the unvarnished love of a woman, why let her go to even contemplate getting another? well, life can be quite unpredictable because if we want everything to go our way, it’ll be a life of perfection that doesn’t exist. Circumstances beyond human control happen which I won’t get into for the aim of this write-up.

Also, there’s this popular saying that goes like this; If you meet/know a woman you like, go for her. Again, not saying this doesn’t work but remember, this is about the unvarnished love of a woman and I can categorically inform you that when the reverse is the case, that’s where the magic lies.

Now, there exist different Pua advice out there on how to love a woman, how to approach a woman, how to make a woman give you her all, how to blend into their unique nature and get the best out of them, etc which of course has been working for others..

And I’m not talking about the hook-up low-quality women because those make the move themselves too.

I don’t expect a number of you to find what I’m getting at relatable nor do I expect everyone to have a similar experience or at most, the unvarnished love of a woman which will make what you’re about reading foreign or unbelievable, which is fine.

There are many standards & norms out there, but in all, very few speak on how much longer relationships where the lady makes the first move last even longer compared to when the guy does.

Women are such an amazing species that they have this active third sense which enables them to spot winners or potential winners and find a way to draw close.

suppose you’ve not been fortunate to experience women come at you directly or indirectly. In that case, you’ll find it difficult to relate to the following experience I’m about to reel out.

Regardless, bear in mind this isn’t a theory nor a well-thought-out piece but rather based on experience and stories of guys with similar experiences.

“Women are meant to be chased”

Over time, with the advent of the internet, women have become attention overwhelmed so much that, it’s become stale. While it feels like a blessing, it is more like a curse than a blessing now. It’s become a challenge to differentiate genuine from just random.

Back then, it was just the guys in her school and neighborhood. Now it’s still those guys and millions of others across the globe, spoiled with options. It plays a role in why women feel “there’s always going to be another dude who’ll hit up on her out there and mostly get bored over time and decide to switch over”

Would you blame her? Perhaps, not completely, yet it raises many questions, not for the ladies now but for men.

Like playing to the majority of how everyone’s going about getting a woman, to most ladies, “he’s just like the rest”. It is at this point that counterintuition becomes useful.

“What you desperately want runs away from you”

The same can be said when it comes to everything in life and women are no different case.

Desperation repels. But being the best version of who people will want to be around draws people naturally to you.

Make no mistake, you must first be worthy. Being worthy comes from aiming to be an improvement from who you’re daily and it’ll show. People pay close attention to these because it reflects in all aspects of your life and outputs.

This is where the attraction lies. And as women spot this and begin to draw close. You’re not desperate. You’re calm. You’re able to identify your preference and make an effort toward her.

Now that’s way different from acting like everyone else who’s in her social media DM’s being the 1000th person hitting on her she barely has time for.

She puts in the effort to draw close to you because She’s interested in you. And if you happen to be interested in her, there my friend lies the rare bond very few get to experience.

It’ll feel entirely different because the effort will be different from what you’re used to.

At the mention of submission, it drives women crazy. Maybe it doesn’t need to be mentioned but rather be worthy of it and then it comes naturally.

How do you know it is in play?

She’ll be a pest to you (in the right sense). When you’re not happy, she’s not. When you’re happy, she is. Whenever there’s a misunderstanding, she’ll be the shadow of herself till it’s sorted.

You become her life. Almost all of her being begins to revolve around you.

She seeks your opinion on everything. Your decision becomes hers. From “I’m not the call type of person” to she blasting your line just to speak with you. No day goes by she doesn’t get to hear from you. The majority of her popular excuses die. She places your happiness as a top priority and so on.

This will bring out a different side of you. Because now you want to make sure nothing harms her. Her safety becomes your utmost priority. She becomes a baby to you. Your manliness comes to the fur.

And make no mistake, all these come out naturally from her. You force nothing. And if you aren’t worthy of it, it becomes the opposite. It will be unfortunate if you cause her to have any regrets due to her submitting to your authority. I say so because her acts will most times appear unbelievable, which can sometimes make you self-destruct in denial and question if it’s for real.

And as I stated initially, I don’t expect the vast majority to find this relatable nor would I consider this advice, sermon, or whatever you’re alluding to it thus far.

I recognize how different we all are and the experience we have, but I’d rather strive to be at the end of experiences where nothing is forced nor defined by the norms.

This cuts across all aspects of human endeavor, the same goes for dealing with customers as a business owner. You want a relationship with them based on mutual respect and understanding. One that makes customers become an ambassador without asking due to the customer experience mechanism you implement.

And this is where businesses separate themselves from the rest, their filter mechanism on who they attract into their business is where the hard work is done.

Imagine having a cult-like customer base. This can also be described as the Unvarnished love of customers. Ones that patronize your franchise passionately and identify with what your brand stands for. Ultimately, your product and service must deliver on its promise because it’ll be on that premise people will return anyway.

Speaking of loyal customers, lots of factors guarantees this, first of which is delivering the goods you promise, secondly, having and sticking to your brand identity, and lastly, having a reward system in place.

If you don’t have these in place, you should consider putting them in place.